I now understand that I don’t understand as much as I thought I did.
Isn’t it paradoxical that I now understand more than I ever have before?
It isn’t only “just OK” not to be able to understand everything. It’s also freeing to not be burdened with feeling like we must.
So, as you are seeking to understand more, feel free to lead even though there will be unanswered questions.

Wisdom is supreme—so get wisdom. And whatever else you get, get understanding. Proverbs 4:7